1. Would you consider yourself an introvert or extrovert? Explain why and ask what your fellow CG members think you are.

2. If you are an introvert, what are some challenges you face at work, in social settings and in church? How do you feel about being an introvert?

3. What are some things that introverted Christians need to be especially mindful of, so that they can fulfil God’s purpose for them individually and in the world?

• 1. Whether you are an extrovert or introvert, what do you dislike or find irritating about the opposite personality type?
• 2. What was Peter’s extroverted nature corrupted by? When you examine the good things that you do, what underlying mixed or hidden motives do you find? What is the solution?
• 3. How do you think God is calling you to serve others in a greater capacity? What might be some personal reasons that cause you to resist him?

• 1. What are some negative affects you have personally seen or experienced as a result of the lack of self-control by men? How can you gain greater self-control?
• 2. What was the consequence of the Fall on man’s innate inclination and ability to lead/take charge? How should Christian men provide leadership differently from the way of the world?
• 3. For the men to answer first: what do you think women want of men? For the women: what do you really want of men? What does Jesus teach men about true love?

• 1. How should we as Christian men and women view the world’s obsession with the idea that a woman’s value is determined by her outward beauty and attractiveness? To what extent have you personally been transformed in this regard by the renewing of your mind through God’s Word?
• 2. What does the Bible say about a woman’s tendency to become relationally dependent and controlling on her male partner? How do you see this play out in your own life or the lives of women around you? What is God’s gracious provision for women?
• 3. Many studies have shown that women worry far more than men. What can women learn from men, and what can men learn from women, about managing anxiety and stress?